It's natural to want to get an ex back after a relationship ends. It's a pretty good bet that we have all experienced a breakup before. I will give you a few ideas that have helped me and quite a few others.
The only way I know, is because I have had my heart broken many times and have used all kinds of tactics to get my ex back. Below are 3 brief ways to help you out.
One of the first things you are going to have to do may be a little hard. You are going to have to get free of every part of the garbage up in your brain. I know that you are broken hearted, but you must have a clear mind before you try to figure out what you are doing.
Go out and spend some money, go to fancy dinner with some friends or what ever it is that is going to get you out of the house! It doesn't matter what you do as long as you go into the next step with your head clear.
Once you know that your mind is clear, take some time and really think about where the problems in your relationship occured. Don't think you can put the blame solely on your ex. It takes more than one person to have a relationship.
What would be some of the things you would do differently? What mistakes did you make that are now more clear than what they were when it was happening? Are you even sure you know what caused the breakup?
Once you have taken some time to really think what went wrong, you need to give your ex some space. Remember they have the same emotions you do. The last thing they want is for you to constantly call or text them. Cut off all contact for about two weeks.
After you have done the above, it's time to get in contact with your ex. Call them up and tell them you would like to meet and discuss some things. Let them know this is not a date, but just a conversation. Knowing what to say at this meeting will make or break your chances of getting your ex back.
The only way I know, is because I have had my heart broken many times and have used all kinds of tactics to get my ex back. Below are 3 brief ways to help you out.
One of the first things you are going to have to do may be a little hard. You are going to have to get free of every part of the garbage up in your brain. I know that you are broken hearted, but you must have a clear mind before you try to figure out what you are doing.
Go out and spend some money, go to fancy dinner with some friends or what ever it is that is going to get you out of the house! It doesn't matter what you do as long as you go into the next step with your head clear.
Once you know that your mind is clear, take some time and really think about where the problems in your relationship occured. Don't think you can put the blame solely on your ex. It takes more than one person to have a relationship.
What would be some of the things you would do differently? What mistakes did you make that are now more clear than what they were when it was happening? Are you even sure you know what caused the breakup?
Once you have taken some time to really think what went wrong, you need to give your ex some space. Remember they have the same emotions you do. The last thing they want is for you to constantly call or text them. Cut off all contact for about two weeks.
After you have done the above, it's time to get in contact with your ex. Call them up and tell them you would like to meet and discuss some things. Let them know this is not a date, but just a conversation. Knowing what to say at this meeting will make or break your chances of getting your ex back.
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