Monday, January 26, 2009

Flower Girl & Ring Bearer Gifts, Thank the Children

By Andrea M.

The flower girl and ring bearer are two very special people who are often overlooked when couples shop for gifts to give the members of the wedding party. They either receive nothing or they are given the same gifts as the bridesmaids and groomsmen. It is important to remember that these are children who should receive special gifts appropriate to their ages and gender.

Shopping for these two special children may not be as simple as one would expect. One could just go to a store and pick up something one would give as a birthday or Christmas present. Most couples agree, however, that the gifts chosen for the flower girl and ring bearer should be very special items that can not be gotten just anywhere anytime. After all, these two were a major part of the wedding ceremony and worked to make it as perfect as possible.

Often, flower girl gifts and ring bearer gifts are chosen from the selection of items available at a bridal boutique while shopping for other wedding related items. These items are normally intended for people of more maturity, meaning that the children may not like them as well. The internet has changed the face of shopping for these items drastically in recent years. Many online stores offer a special section of items chosen specifically for children in the age range normally picked to function as flower girls and ring bearers.

The number of different age appropriate items available amazes many couples. Many of these items can be given with equal ease to a boy or a girl. Others are more gender specific. The sheer number of choices available may complicate the shopping process at times.

One important fact to keep in mind when shopping for flower girl gifts and ring bearer gifts is that these items are being given to children as a special "Thank you" gift. If the item is to be practical, it should be durable as well. Mostly, couples prefer to give items that will be put away as a keepsake to act as a reminder of the time the child participated in a wedding later on in life. One of the best available options for couples is to have their flower girl gifts and ring bearer gifts personalized with the name of the child and the date of the wedding. Personalization makes these items mean more to the children and conveys the gratitude of the couple in a stronger fashion.

Two little people are often overlooked by couples shopping for gifts for their wedding party. Either the children do not receive a special gift at all, or they receive the same gifts gotten for the adult members of the wedding party. It is far better to shop around and locate special gifts that are age and/or gender specific to children for giving as flower girl gifts or ring bearer gifts.

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