Monday, January 26, 2009

Mistakes With Your Ex You Simply Must Not Make!

By Zena P Truscott

Mistakes with your ex can cost you any chance of saving your relationship you may have had! Your break up may have left you sad and disillusioned, but no matter how unjust it may have seemed, the only way to give yourself the best chance of fixing your relationship is to take positive action to avoid some very "Killer" mistakes.

The five killer mistakes you should not make with your ex are:

*Major Mistake with your Ex : - Apologising over and over again for everything that has ever happened between y has to stop. Continually apologising is a major mistake with your ex because it makes the apology look insincere. The fact is you have broken up over something and the situation is serious. Stop apologising for anything and everything. It just will not mean anything right now. If you have done something you need to apologise for, there will be a time and a place later

* Fatal Mistake With Your Ex: - Trying to Change yourself into someone else is something you must not attempt. You are the person you are, and ultimately the person your ex wanted to be with in the beginning. Trying to change is a promise you probably just can't keep! Don't do it!

*Fatal Mistake With Your Ex: - Telling your ex that you are their one true love and that you have to be together is a mistake! Your ex doesn't think so at the moment and you need to give them space. Ultimately only they can decide who their one true love is...you will just look weak trying to make a convincing argument that it is you.

*Major Mistake with your Ex : - Trying to get them to see it wasnt your fault is a very dangerous tactic that must be avoided. If you are fresh from a break up, both of your emotions are raw. Probably, you will have both said things or even done things recently that have been part of your break up. Dont fall for needing to place blame on their shoulders.

*Fatal Mistake With Your Ex: - If you are begging your ex to make up and take you back your are making a big mistake. Don't use guilt and emotional blackmail to try and fix a relationship. It does not solve the problems that caused the break up and will only backfire, causing another break up eventually.

How did you rate after reading the list of top 5 "Killer" mistakes you can make with your ex? How many of these tactics are you using? Experience shows that behaving in the way shown in the mistakes above will not help you make a successful reconciliation.

Using tactics like the killer mistakes above only make your break up more certain. What you need to use instead are positive moves that act to rebuild your relationship on firmer foundations.

The Magic of Making System up is the trusted guide for people who find they have endured a break up but still want their ex back. The system specialises in taking people by the hand and teaching them step by step what to do in order to have the best chance of making up with their lover. The information above comes from this proven system and it forms a very small part of the very detailed and important information the guide will give you

The Magic of Making Up has helped over 6000 people mend their broken relationships and get back together. If you would like to learn more about the program please follow the links below to the Magic of Making Up web pages that deal with mending broken relationships. These pages also include the opportunity to listen to an inspiring video presentation from the author of The Magic of Making Up.( His name is T.W. Jackson and he has a wealth of experience in helping people just like you mend relationships after a break up.)

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