Women have it tough in todays economy. Many women find it helpful to get counseling, psychic readings and help from friends in this time of need. If you are a woman and have children, then its even going to be tougher for you. However, you dont have to suffer anymore because I am going to tell you how you can improve your current situation so that it doesnt have to be so tough on you.
First ask yourself what your true needs really are. Do you really need that new pair of jeans? Does it make sense to you to go out and have that steak dinner that you used to have with your boyfriend or husband? I know that I have cut back on my spending. I rarely eat out and I dont spend on anything that I dont have to. I used to shop at the mall and now I shop at Wal-Mart. I save a lot of money at Wal-Mart and Target to be honest with you. Years ago, I probably would have never gone to these kinds of stores because I thought them to be second class to me. However, I now go here regularly because I simply cannot afford to shop anywhere else.
When I lost my six figure income job, I didnt know where I was going to turn. I thought to myself that I had to find something that would make me happy. I didnt know where to look at I simply was not hearing anyone pounding on my door asking me to come and work for them. I had a screaming child at home that was used to getting everything that they wanted. However, I had to explain to my child that they could no longer get everything that they wanted. They had to simply take a pay cut them. I thought that I would start taking my child to parks and zoos. They are relatively cheaper than movie theaters and amusement parks. Believe it or not, my child actually enjoyed this. It really didnt make a different on the fun side. I was amazed that I also got to spend some more time with my child as well because I wanted to see us having money despite our circumstances.
I also realized that my husband was pleased with me as well. I find it to be so easy now to tell people about my situation because I want others to feel the kind of good energy that I feel inside of me towards life now. I am no longer ashamed of losing my job. I now do part time work for my local library. I find that working for the government is secure employment. Even more so than a six figure job.
My advice to women everywhere in the world is to take care of them and watch your budget no matter how much money you have. Be careful about your spending because I was called into my bosss office in just one day after working for him for ten years and he just let me go in less than 15 minutes. It was the hardest 15 minutes of my life. He gave me no warning signs. He simply just said that he had to lay me off because the company was downsizing. My jaw just dropped because just six months before this, he told me that he wanted to give me a raise for the following year because I was doing so good and I have been a good employee for the past 10 years.
As you can tell, I was really shocked to go. However, it taught me a good lesson. It taught me that you are never secure in any job no matter how good you are doing your job. You have to really look out for yourself only and realize that you have to always have money saved in the bank and be willing to take on odd jobs after you lose your job. Dont wait around for the next six figure salary because it may not come to you anymore.
First ask yourself what your true needs really are. Do you really need that new pair of jeans? Does it make sense to you to go out and have that steak dinner that you used to have with your boyfriend or husband? I know that I have cut back on my spending. I rarely eat out and I dont spend on anything that I dont have to. I used to shop at the mall and now I shop at Wal-Mart. I save a lot of money at Wal-Mart and Target to be honest with you. Years ago, I probably would have never gone to these kinds of stores because I thought them to be second class to me. However, I now go here regularly because I simply cannot afford to shop anywhere else.
When I lost my six figure income job, I didnt know where I was going to turn. I thought to myself that I had to find something that would make me happy. I didnt know where to look at I simply was not hearing anyone pounding on my door asking me to come and work for them. I had a screaming child at home that was used to getting everything that they wanted. However, I had to explain to my child that they could no longer get everything that they wanted. They had to simply take a pay cut them. I thought that I would start taking my child to parks and zoos. They are relatively cheaper than movie theaters and amusement parks. Believe it or not, my child actually enjoyed this. It really didnt make a different on the fun side. I was amazed that I also got to spend some more time with my child as well because I wanted to see us having money despite our circumstances.
I also realized that my husband was pleased with me as well. I find it to be so easy now to tell people about my situation because I want others to feel the kind of good energy that I feel inside of me towards life now. I am no longer ashamed of losing my job. I now do part time work for my local library. I find that working for the government is secure employment. Even more so than a six figure job.
My advice to women everywhere in the world is to take care of them and watch your budget no matter how much money you have. Be careful about your spending because I was called into my bosss office in just one day after working for him for ten years and he just let me go in less than 15 minutes. It was the hardest 15 minutes of my life. He gave me no warning signs. He simply just said that he had to lay me off because the company was downsizing. My jaw just dropped because just six months before this, he told me that he wanted to give me a raise for the following year because I was doing so good and I have been a good employee for the past 10 years.
As you can tell, I was really shocked to go. However, it taught me a good lesson. It taught me that you are never secure in any job no matter how good you are doing your job. You have to really look out for yourself only and realize that you have to always have money saved in the bank and be willing to take on odd jobs after you lose your job. Dont wait around for the next six figure salary because it may not come to you anymore.
About the Author:
Wendy Reese likes getting psychic readings to her women friends. She also gives free psychic advice on her website weekly.
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